Hurray you win!!

I have very deep feelings about competitions
I have been in many competitions and remember
Both sides if it. Because I have 5 sisters
Competitions seems to be normal, yet here is a secret
I never wanted to play
My mother whether intentionally or not would put us
up against each other which to this day causes many issues
Even modeling feeling chosen over others felt very
hard for me because I had low self confidence and thought
other girls were prettier than me ( which I mentioned in another post)
I have put a lot of thought into this and feel that
The desire to compete against someone I feel either
Shows a reflection of a need for Superiority or an Inferiority complex.
Do you feel that someone has to win? What about building
them up for their abilities instead of encouraging them
to have someone beneath them

Written by Nikki E Poseidon

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